So you think you lead a miseable life?

Imagine this..

You had a perfect life. You have a very loving parents, who truly loves and adores you. They never scolded you when you did anything wrong. They always support you, even if you tell them you are taking up heroin. You were never shortage of money, as they always pumps in money to you. You can do anything you want, and yet they won't show any form of protests or objections.
You never failed anything in your life. You ace your school, bagging each available award that was given out each year. Your teachers hailed you as the best human ever enrolled in your school. You don't have any troubles with your peers, as you were the most popular person in school. Even the school janitor knows your name. You have a remarkable reputation. You beat up the school bullies without suffering any bruises. You even played sports and excelled in every single one of them. Hell, maybe you even broke the 100m sprint record, twice.
When you went for your tertiary education (say, overseas), you maintained your excellent records. You maintained a 4.00 CGPA throughout the entire course. You even managed to prove that certain theories made by some bald-headed professors were wrong, and you came up with a new one.
Besides that, you have a very beautiful, very loving girlfriend, who stayed loyal with you throughout the years. She never looked at another man, you guys never fought, she always said yes to everything you said. It seems that she's been carved from a pearl.

In short, you lead a very remarkable life, never faced any hardship, never being rejected, never felt any pain, never had to make a life-changing decision, never failed in anything, never being depressed, never stressed, never worries, nothing negative what-so-ever.

A perfect life.

Want to know what I think?
B U L L S H I T

Yes, the life I've mentioned earlier was the kind of life everyone would ever wish for. Nobody is stupid enough to say "I want to be poor" or "I want to be in trouble every single day" or "I want to fail miserably in everything I put my hands on". If this is what on your mind right, I suggest you stop reading this article, go dip yourself in blood, and feed yourself to the sharks. People are always whining how sucks their life is. Low salary, being scolded every day, being hated by everyone, failed in everything, not handsome enough, not thin enough, bla bla bla. Then the blaming game starts. They blamed their parents for not giving them enough attention or enough money. They blamed their friends who never supported them or being there when they were in trouble. They blamed their bosses for not giving them the salary they were looking for or burden them with so much work. They blame their girlfriends for not showering them with enough love or passion. They blame the society for setting up an unreachable perception that need to be filled.They blamed the cigarettes company. They blamed global warming. They blamed the pornstars. They blamed Marilyn Manson. And the biggest bullshit of all motherload bullshits, "simply bad luck" or "I am not being blessed with luck" or "I'm an unlucky miserable little bastard who is born to fail in everything".

Fuck you. What's luck got to do in everything? Wake up and take a good look at the mirror. That's the one you should be putting blames on. You had it all, and you put it all away, sometimes for the dumbest reasons anyone can think of. You are in control of your life. You dictate what you are going to do. It's your life dammit. Still blaming all your mishaps? That's what makes you, you. A person with no hardships in life will never get anything in life. A person that never fails is a person who never tries. So what if you failed your exams. So what if you have to struggle to meet ends meet. So what if you are fat. So what if you're making low income. So what if everything collapses. So what if you lose.

You will be a bigger loser if you never learn anything from your mistakes. You're fucked if you see every failure as a proof of your stupidity. There's a lesson behind it wankers. It shapes who you are. It shapes your decision making. Life experiences are the best teacher in life. Your life would be boring without it. Those scars are a solid proof or your worthiness. Those headaches are a sign that shows you are actually using your brain. Those pains are going to mend you, commit to it. Those sweats, bloods, and tears are evidences to your hardworks and efforts. You are different from others, so why let them fucking with your head. You are you. And for what its worth, you are the best person that you'll ever know. This is your life, and it's ending one minute at a time. And your life can be as wonderful as everyone's imagined it would be, but if, and only if you permits it.

Still thinks your life is miserable? Think again.